If it’s about you then yes it is your business to know however you have a choice as to whether or not you let it bother you.

We have a responsibility to ourselves and to others with how we choose to use our words and when we talk about other people we are taking on the responsibility of telling their story and allowing what we have to say influence how other people think and feel about them.

No one has the right to lie about another and inflict harm on their life by doing so. Whether you care or not, what other people think and say about you will impact your life.

How many people have you not met because of what other people have said about you?

How many opportunities have you missed because of what people have said about you?

The story of you is shaped more by other people than it is by you.

While the sound fades out, the signal that is your voice never stops and the emotion of the words and the concepts tied to them travel and are felt by all worldwide. This is the basis of intuition.

This is how the 100th Monkey effect works. Emotional concepts that are picked up by the subconscious and stored until it becomes relevant information at the conscious level.

This sometimes can feel as though you had an idea pop up out of nowhere that leads to what is a new realization for us, however is something we have been getting hit with at the subconscious level for an untold amount of time.

It can look like a behavioral change that is subtle and goes unnoticed at first. This is how we do things behind our back in front of our faces and it is influenced by all we take in. We take it all in however are rarely if ever consciously aware of it.

This means we have felt the shit people have been talking behind our backs. This means we have felt the emotions they have aimed at us. These things can and do have an impact on us. For an Empath it is nearly impossible for us to not be aware of how anyone feels about us. We feel it with you.

If you are trying to repress or suppress it, we feel it for you. There is no hiding how you feel from an Empath.

I don’t care how scary that is for anyone, it is true and you all need to grow the fuck up and accept this truth. I say need because until it happens and people like my self are accepted for who we are the world inflicts much suffering upon us. Think of it as being bullied about being gay and told it’s a mental illness or that it can be fixed or reversed.

I once led a discussion in front of a group of over 500,000 on Linked in concerning people like me and even started designing the test to prove our existence offering myself up to be the guinea pig. I hate the idea of being a guinea pig, however if it puts an end to the suffering being inflicted on many I would do it without thinking twice.

There are millions of people around the world who know exactly how you feel about them even if they are never around when you talk about them. There are people like myself who always know what you think of them.

The power of disbelief gives you the ability to think you are not creating suffering by the way you talk about others behind their back. It gives a delusion built on self imposed ignorance to not feel guilty about impacting the lives of the people you talk about.

It’s why I say if you can’t say something nice, make damn sure it’s true.

If you can’t say it to their face why are you saying anything to begin with?