Bachman-turner overdrive. The one song I know.

Any lovin’ is good lovin’, so I took what I could get.

Through 40 that was me. I was a slut, all a woman had to do was get me drunk.

In the last ten years I’ve been not drinking.

Every last one night stand I had was do to drinking.

The last ten years I’ve been celibate. At first I didn’t think there was a way I could make a year, much less ten.

Why am I writing this?

You know that sweetheart, you really really like her.

So.

I’m not having sex with anyone until we have a nap.

Sleeping next to another is the best way to know if you like waking up next to them.

No sex.

Not even a kiss.

If we wake up and we still like each other, then it’s on like donkey Kong.

I like a lot of foreplay.

Conversation is foreplay. Leading each other through each other’s minds. Taking time to know how relaxed you are, and the other is with each other.

Taking the time to sit silently together, not because you agreed to it, because your that comfortable that no words are needed.

This is what it means to be wooed by a gentleman.

I drew a soul flower for sweetheart. She took it and said I was sweet. No the rambunctious teenager is at the front of my mind.

However, I’ve learned to manage that reaction into a response that doesn’t’t make me sound like a I got a screw loose.

I like to make dinner.

Chicken with balsamic vinegar, fresh garlic, coconut oil, sesame seed oil, teriyaki, and a sprinkle of provolone.

Baby red potatoes with rosemary and fresh garlic.

French bread.

Now I’m hungry.

Dinner and conversation are the perfect foreplay.

If you know you and your partner are planning to have sex, make the day foreplay. Give each other texts that could be erotic.

One of my favorite ex girlfriends, we used to write erotic poetry through text.

Erotic is not “I’m gonna fuck….”

Erotic is “as I lay here I have no idea what to do, can you help me figure it out?”

You truly have zero idea what that means, however if you have a mind that understands sex and innuendo, one can say anything and have it be a sexual reference.

Now speaking to a lover is not speaking to anyone else.

One should never be lustful with one that one doesn’t have permission to lust after.

For crying out loud cut out the one night stands and the sex for a relationship.

Look for one that one wants to talk to.

Because talking is all your going to as you get older.

Have a blessed one and be excellent on purpose.