James and the Gyre Field writing some stuff you won’t wanna miss.

Androgynous.

One that is neither female or male.

That’s what your soul is.

Hence why people have past lives in both sexes.

So take what you think a man is and take what you think a woman is, and flush it.

In order to evolve one must balance both energies within themselves.

I was house husband. I loved the job.

I loved taking care of my wife and the kids.

There is no man’s work, nor is there any woman’s work.

Anyone can do any work that needs to be done.

Hence why I use the word one. It’s gender neutral. 

Things that divide us.

One carries the seed and one carries the eggs. Then one carries the baby.

Both are needed and not one is better than the other. 

I get in this day and age, how many dead beat dads are there?

How many dead beat moms are out there?

How frequently do we assume one parent, must be the mom.

I was a single dad who took care of my infant son.

No gender has the corner on parenting.

In fact both parents are needed. Look at the studies.  I have. 

My wife and I did a huge disservice to our son. We fragmented ourselves and fragmented our son as a result.

It wasn’t our son’s fault that we couldn’t find a way to make it. However, our son had to deal with it.

I’ve apologized to my son for this.

It’s why I’ve been celibate for close to 12 years. 

I needed to heal myself and I needed to regain my soul.

Now I can sacrifice the pleasure I could get so that my soul will continue to be clean.  It’s no sacrifice to me.

It’s why I don’t look for a girlfriend.

I look for a best friend. 

I’ve evolved to understand why I need to save myself for marriage. 

Before the nearly 12 years, I fucked on occasion and didn’t think twice about it. Everybody was doing it.

Peer pressure.

Now, I look at women differently.  I respect them and I respect them more than they respect themselves. 

Most women.  Some women do respect themselves. 

I get this is more James than the Gyre Field.

Why not use my experience to let you see how I fucked up to understand you don’t need to fuck yourself up. 

Learn from my mistakes.  Someone should and I’ve already learned. I wish I didn’t have to learn from making the mistakes. 

Share it if this rings true.

If not I expect you to find fault with what I’ve written and comment.

Have a blessed one and be excellent always.