This is one of the most debated topics for parents. Our kids will never have sex, even it they have children, they never have sex.

This is the lie that I tell myself and it is a disservice to my son.

Why is it so difficult to talk about sex with your kids?

I think, my opinion is we need to teach them that they are androgynous souls.

This in my opinion works toward the transgender fad. Some people truly believe their transgender.

However, if we take the sex out and teach children that each one of us has feminine and masculine energy to balance out within, it could see the fad fade away.

Starting with pink is a girls color and blue is for boys.  This never made sense to me.

When my son was 1 year old he confiscated his sisters pink bunnies. When we divorced when my son was 2, one bunny came to my place and one went to his mom’s place.

Looking at psychology, my son loved those bunnies because it reminded him of a time when his family all lived together.

He kept that bunny until he was 8 at my place.  I got it. He had nothing to do with sexuality.

Teaching kids is a responsibility.  Where we guide them, they go.

Hence why I suggest teaching human sexuality should start with no color is for boys an no color is for girls.  I also think we should use androgynous clothing.

Nothing is for men an nothing is for women. Except the bra. I get the bra.

However, if we use androgynous clothing and get rid of mens and women’s, boys and girls, this could be a way to stop sexualizing each other.

Men are visual and take visual cues. The stretch pants that women wear that show every bit of their ass, has to go.

Tight clothing needs to go.

We should wear long sleeves and loose fitting pants.

Women are visual as well. The amount of times I’ve heard women friends say “Look at that.”

Tells me women are as visual as men are if men are showing it off.

This needs to start as children. We need to stop sexualizing children. 

I get what if it’s hot?

What about bathing suits?

Take a look at the the 1920’s. Everything covered and no form fitting.

Shorts we long shorts.

Take a look at swim wear in 2026.

The thong bikini is the most revealing thing I’ve ever seen.

I get that there are those that think I’m shaming the body, but I’m not. I think every body is beautiful, but it’s the mind that is what attracts me to anyone. 

Some models make me sick. Some dorks heat me up. 

It’s in the mind. How does one’s mind work?

That is what I find attractive. 

This is being a sapiophile.  Intelligence is sexy, and it doesn’t matter what one looks like. 

This is what we should be teaching children.

I say we start teaching this at an early age, say 10 years old, think about it. The teen years where hormones go wild, it will make it easier. 

If one is looking at how one’s mind works and one can have an endless conversation, that’s when one starts to notice this one is hot. 

I’m going to write more about this tomorrow. 

Have a blessed one and be excellent always