Tantra.
Now that I have your attention, yes teach kids tantric principles.
How many women have been disappointed from sex with men?
Many.
Now I’m not talking about teaching then crazy sex positions. I’m talking about teaching them sex feels good, and even better when it’s someone you’re in love with.
Building trust builds better sex.
That’s what intimacy means, building trust between the two of you. Meaning you have no secrets from your partner and they have no secrets from you.
Taking the time to truly get into your partners mind.
Mind sex.
It starts with eye contact and deep conversation. This is what mind sex is.
I used to write erotic poetry with a woman I dated once. She would spout a line and I responded with a line. We couldn’t have actual sex because I lived one place and she lived somewhere else.
There was one woman I fell deeply in love with when she told me “I wish we could be in bed and just let the love pass between us.”
Again, we never had sex. But that line had me. I would’ve done anything to be with her and protect her and make dinner for her, and stuff.
I’m a hopeless romantic.
Teach your children to be romantic. My dad did it by bringing my mom roses for no apparent reason.
Doing little things for someone means everything to the right one.
My last wife. When she got home from work, I had put a bowl of weed by her computer everyday. Then I was in the kitchen making dinner, and when she was ready, she’d come into the kitchen and we talked.
Talking is what keeps relationships together. Why not start a relationship by talking?
Finding out what each other’s dreams are. I look to support a partner and I look for a partner who wants to support me.
This is what children need to learn. The endless conversation.
My last student, I texted her daily and I stayed awake until she fell asleep. This went on for more than 6 months. Oh, how hard I fell.
I fell into her mind, and that made me fall in love with her.
Never had sex. Again she lived in one city and I lived in a other.
Mind sex can have one fall in love.
The endless conversation with a best friend is what makes a relationship.
I look at it and if I’m having an endless conversation with a woman, I got to take a nap with her.
Depending on how we feel about each other when we wake, that will tell me everything I need to know.
This is what children need to learn.
Sex, while it feels good, having an endless conversation will make the relationship last.
This conversation I’ve had with my son.
I’ve been celibate for 11 years. I fell in love with several I never had sex with. It was the conversation that had me fall in love.
This is exactly what children should know. Doesn’t matter what anyone looks like, what matters is who is the one person you can’t wait to talk with.
That’s what a hopeless romantic thinks about it.
Have a blessed one and be excellent always.
